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Summer may be winding down, but the warmth lingers, and so does the spirit of fashion enthusiasts who continue to flaunt their favorite summer dresses. Whether it’s a mini, midi, or maxi, these pieces are still gracing our wardrobes. Among those enjoying the fashion scene is Vicky, a curvy style lover from Chicago, who describes herself as “midsize,” standing at 5’2″ and weighing 180 pounds.
Vicky, a passionate advocate for body positivity, regularly shares her journey on social media. Her goal? To help others embrace their bodies, just as she’s learned to love hers. With nearly 40,000 followers, Vicky’s message of self-love has resonated with many. However, her path to self-acceptance wasn’t always smooth.
Reflecting on her journey, Vicky admits that confidence didn’t come naturally. “I would admire those who wore bodycon dresses, but I never felt confident enough to pull it off,” she shared in an Instagram post. For years, she doubted her own beauty and questioned whether she could wear the figure-hugging styles she loved. But over time, seeing other midsize women confidently wear bodycon dresses inspired her to do the same.
“Seeing others like me, midsize girls […] showed me that I can wear bodycon dresses like them. What are you waiting for? Go rock that outfit you’ve been wanting to wear!” Vicky encouraged her followers.
Recently celebrating her wedding anniversary in Las Vegas, Vicky made a vow not to hide behind oversized clothing. She’s determined to show off her body, belly and all, despite what fashion “rules” might say. “I love bodycon dresses despite what fashion rules say about me wearing them,” she declared boldly.
Unfortunately, Vicky’s journey hasn’t been free from criticism. Even her family struggled to accept her appearance during her younger years, often commenting on her weight. “I still have memories of family commenting that I’m fat when it’s the first time they’ve seen me in a long while, and it still happens,” she revealed. Despite these harsh remarks, Vicky has learned to tune out the negativity and focus on her own sense of self-worth. “I instead rely on my own self-love for myself. I know what’s going on in my life. I know what’s brought me to where I am today and I know what I’m capable of.”
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However, the online world can be even harsher. Vicky has faced brutal attacks from trolls who have gone as far as comparing her to a “midsize van.” Yet, instead of letting these cruel comments bring her down, Vicky uses her platform to rise above the negativity and continue spreading her message of body positivity.
While Vicky’s story is one of resilience, she’s not alone in facing such criticism. The topic of body image and finding flattering clothing for various body types is a common discussion. For those looking to enhance their summer wardrobe, brands like Boux Avenue offer tips on selecting swimwear that flatters different body shapes. From high-cut styles to strappy designs, there’s a swimsuit out there for every figure, allowing everyone to feel confident in their skin.
Sadly, not everyone is supportive. One troll commented, “Midsize? Your BMI is 33. I know BMI isn’t accurate, but that’s only for people who work out—you obviously don’t.” Another chimed in with a hurtful remark: “That’s plus size.” And in a particularly cruel comment, someone said, “You look like a HIPPOPOTAMUS.”
Despite the cruelty, there are still kind-hearted individuals who defend Vicky and others like her. “Wth is with these comments? You’re adorable, and I’m loving the confidence,” one follower responded. Another expressed their shock at the negativity, writing, “Y’all are f***ing mean! She looks good, and she’s confident and happy. I wish I had half her confidence.”
Vicky’s journey is a powerful reminder of the importance of self-love in a world that can be harshly critical. By sharing her story, she’s helping others realize that true beauty comes from within—and that no one should ever feel ashamed of their body, no matter its size.
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